It is my understanding that the new spark plugs have taller threads, and so they engage more of the 6 existing threads cut into the aluminum heads. The old plugs that came out of my truck didn't look that bad frankly.
One other note, I have also heard that the longer you wait to remove the plugs, the more likely they will take the threads of the heads with them when they come out.
By the way when mine were done I also had to have a coil replaced, (complete shutdown of cylinder # 4) this is what actually brought me in to the dealer.
'99 SuperCab Lariat