My wife has been working in benefits management for 15 years but a couple of years ago, jobs became hard to find or were contract only. After getting laid off, she made the decision to change careers and went back to college to become a paralegal. She makes me proud how hard she is working in school (on the dean's list every semester). You can't sit still and whine about how the world is unfair or you have to get off your ass and work to improve your situation.