Story ends with a good ending.....
Thanks to the Blue Oval Forum, a forum member that was willing to share and X-plan pin, and a different dealer, things went smoothly.
Made a call to Ted Britt Ford (Northern Virginia), identified the the Escape hybrid I wanted over an email, got the X plan, the available $1000 rebate, the 1.9% financing and the $1000 rebate card that I got in the mail form Ford. I am now able to get my tax credit for buying the hybrid.
The dealer does make the difference.......