I'm starting to think that when I walk into a dealership, people say, "Give him to the new guy, he's not actually going to buy anything."
The three times I've been to dealers (two Ford, one Mazda), I had either no help or little help. The only time I got good help was when I revisited the Mazda dealership and talked to the internet sales guy with whom I had corresponded online. I actually went straight from the Ford dealership to the Mazda dealership (they are in the same town, 45 minutes from me), because I was so disappointed in the space in the back of the Focus.
Hopefully the dealership near me that is getting the Titanium with handling package gets it in soon, so I can continue my indecision