Cheryl Stevens Landers

I hit a deer in my 2013 Edge SEL. When I got it back this week the daytime running lights do not come on automatically when the headlight switch to turned to automatic. The dealer says they are not supposed to come on unless I turn it manually to another setting. I know that the daytime running lights always came on before I hit the deer. Am I wrong or is the dealer wrong? What can I show or tell them if I am right? The headlights were replaced with after market headlights. They cast a very weird pattern and I am not sure if it is the headlights or the way they are positioned. Any thoughts?