Hey man, it's machoman1337 your fellow Canuck here from the Hybrid forum. I remember seeing your car personally IRL when I was still a student in downtown TO and noticing how awesome your license plate was when you were driving on College St.
Yeah, Toronto taxi drivers are total savages at times... doesn't help that many of them emigrate from countries where traffic "laws" are the exception rather than the norm. Most TO drivers (to me) are relatively polite, better than their Vancouver counterparts, but cab and bus drivers ruin everything!
Real sorry to see what happened to your car. On the plus side, you did post a lot about problems you had with the car (you ordered one of the earliest models to roll off the line!), and since your insurance reimbursed you, you can get a newer car that lacks all those issues! You probably learned a lesson my dad learned 15 years ago - never buy ANY brand new car that's in the first batch of production. Give it at least half a year for issues to get corrected before more cars roll off the assembly line.
My Fusion was bought preowned but wasn't built quite as early as the one you lost, and it's been problem-free so far. That means that if you buy a new '15/'16 FFH or even a used '14, you should have a lot of peace of mind when it comes to reliability as most of the early kinks were ironed out.
If you really like the Tuxedo black colour, consider a certified pre-owned 2014 FFH maybe? I looked on autotrader and Markville Ford (where I bought my own FFH!) is selling this: http://wwwa.autotrader.ca/a/Ford/Fusion/Unionville/Ontario/5_23638207_ON20080123130132070/?showcpo=ShowCPO&orup=6_15_7
As for Lexus being ugly... the ES300h isn't nice? C'mon :P
P.S. are you keeping the license plate?