OK I'm an outsider and don't know the full extent of local politics on the matter.
It's seems somewhere along the line that, tolerence and acceptance of gays was hijacked by activists on both sides polarizing the community to suit their own ends. Outside of extremists, mainstream straight and gay community members who make up the bulk of society are not out to change the world, they just want enough wiggle room for each to co exist and possibly a bit of legislation to make recognition of partners valid in the eyes of the law with regards planning a life (and death) for two.
In truth, if we rub out all the extremism on both sides, what remains is achievable and equitable.
I guess evolution of society is a hard thing to guide, you let loose new parameters and sometimes
you get progress, other times you get division and turmoil. I just hope the changes envisioned don't
create more problem than they solve.