I agree with you wholeheartedly. Everything is a race to the next stop and go light anymore. I use to haul skids loaded with cast iron and know all about shifting and sliding loads. I learned quickly about a thing called finesse.
Back in the day, a good friend of mine drove an 85 F-250 300-6 with a manual trans. It had an auxilary diesel tank in the bed, and a 7.5' Western pro plow, and I never heard him complained about power.
I use to have a Ford F-7000 dump truck, powered by a 175hp 3208 CAT, that could pull a small church.
When it comes to trucks, it's all about the torque.